Hey all. My name is Kayden(roughloveiskey) I just really want to meet some new people. I live in the Vancouver area in bc but even if you don’t live near by hit me up cuz I have kik as well. I am ftm transgender and will be starting T next month. Please msg me I love to meet new people.

hi there!! my name is ckylar,15, genderfluid (of course), and bi. i live in southern ontario (canada).

i’m really passionate about music and people who like the same obscure things as me. i’m single, but have a huge crush on someone and cannot imagine dating someone else, but that’s probably not the healthiest mindset.

i’d really like to make some new friends, even though i’m pretty bad at keeping up a conversation, which i apologize for in advance.

i also really like batman, doctor who, gorillaz, and grimes.

come talk to me at carlostheperfecthairedscientist.tumblr.com :)

klutzygeek:

have a diary comic about today. i don’t even know what i was trying to say but it’s really fucking cute apparently

(Reblogged from klutzygeek)

Anonymous said: Hey I'm gender fluid and I'd like to try binding on my masculine days but I'm worried because some ppl say it wrecks breast tissue and I don't want that on my feminine days. Is it true??? I'm nervous to try...

It does thin breast tissue, but that’s over a period of years.  Nothing bad would happen if you just wanted to try it a few times.  I believe it also depends on how long you wear it per day, and maybe also the tightness?

So:

-short term you’re not going to have a problem.  if you want to try, go for it, your chest won’t suddenly deflate.

-long term, it does make some changes.  you basically have to decide whether or not it’s worth it to you.  the changes probably wouldn’t be too dramatic, or not in the span of a couple years anyway (it varies by person), but it does thin the tissue.  I can’t make that decision for you.

-Riam

Hey, I’m Robin, sometimes I go by Rin. I’m pansexual and genderfluid and prefer they/them pronouns. I’m actually not really out with my gender identity, but I do present as whatever gender I feel like. I also only have six people who know I’m pan… along with all my followers. I love new people and everything, I’m just awkward. Sorry, all. But I would love to talk to you, and I’m always open to friends, so just message me anytime (mysterious—cheekbones)!

Hey, I’m Robin, sometimes I go by Rin. I’m pansexual and genderfluid and prefer they/them pronouns. I’m actually not really out with my gender identity, but I do present as whatever gender I feel like. I also only have six people who know I’m pan… along with all my followers. I love new people and everything, I’m just awkward. Sorry, all. But I would love to talk to you, and I’m always open to friends, so just message me anytime (mysterious—cheekbones)!

dracolegend said: Just sharing: I've been wanting boxers for a while, and today my mom bought me some. I'm so happy!

Yayyyy!

Flavia

Hey everyone. It’s Miri/Lucas. I’m thinking about changing my name to just Lucas once I get to college. (Lukas on my girl days) I’m not sure yet. You can just call me Miri while I get everything figured out. I’ve been switching from girl to boy to girl and back again for as long as I can remember. Just recently, I was boy for my eighth grade and freshman year. A girl for most of sophomore and all of junior year. I’m leaning more towards my boy side right now even though some days, I’m a girl. I’ve just found out what gender fluidity is and figure that it’s what I most likely am. I’m DFAB (Take off the D and I’m FABulous. Haha.) I’m sixteen, but I turn seventeen in less than a month. Sorry this intro was everywhere.

proteg0 said: I've been questioning my gender for months now and I think I'm genderfluid or genderqueer or nonbinary or something. I'm dfab and experience very little dysphoria. I have days where I feel very femme, but I don't always feel female and femme. Does that make sense? I'm pansexual, but lately I've been leaning male, but it's been feeling more like I'm a gay boy who's feminine than I'm just a boring old straight girl. Can I be a feminine boy and where do I go from here?

That’s entirely possible!  Where you go from here is completely up to you.  Maybe you want to socially transition to male.  Maybe you’d rather be socially nonbinary.  Maybe you don’t want to come out.  Maybe you want to access medical transition.  Maybe you want to go on hormones, or have some sort of surgery, or neither, or both.  Maybe you want to present in a feminine matter, or maybe you’d prefer only to do that when people read you as male, or something else.  It’s all up to you!  Anyway, what you feel is valid—whether you’re a binary trans femme boy, or a femme nonbinary boy, or a femme genderfluid person, or whatever else—and don’t feel your options in who to be are limited by your asab, or femme-ness, or potential nonbinary-ness or fluidity or anything else.

-Riam

Anonymous said: Is it common to have a hard time adjusting when you first ask people to call you by the name you choose? Because I asked my best friend that a few days ago--she took it well and obliged, but it feels kind of... wrong, like I made a mistake. I really do like the name I chose, it's common and the image I get when I think of it is, well, a male me. But I'm not male, not quite yet, I don't have my binders yet and I still have long hair. Is that why? I'm just really worried about this.

That’s very common, don’t worry. It’ll probably take a week or two at least before you feel like that name is really “you.”  I doubt your hair or binding status has anything to do with it, though I suppose it could.

-Riam

Anonymous said: about my last ask, correct that statement to I was born with a vagina, not as a girl, sorry about that im still sorta trying to grow out of that way of thinking since im only recently (as of last year) aware of why its a problem, again im sorry

Hey it’s all good, I don’t know which ask you’re referring to but it’s okay to have difficulty with this stuff and also to refer to yourself however you like.  if it’s the thing I tagged as casual cissexism that’s just in case other readers are upset by that kind of wording and want to avoid it.  it’s okay, don’t beat yourself up about it :)

-Riam