proteg0 said: I've been questioning my gender for months now and I think I'm genderfluid or genderqueer or nonbinary or something. I'm dfab and experience very little dysphoria. I have days where I feel very femme, but I don't always feel female and femme. Does that make sense? I'm pansexual, but lately I've been leaning male, but it's been feeling more like I'm a gay boy who's feminine than I'm just a boring old straight girl. Can I be a feminine boy and where do I go from here?
That’s entirely possible! Where you go from here is completely up to you. Maybe you want to socially transition to male. Maybe you’d rather be socially nonbinary. Maybe you don’t want to come out. Maybe you want to access medical transition. Maybe you want to go on hormones, or have some sort of surgery, or neither, or both. Maybe you want to present in a feminine matter, or maybe you’d prefer only to do that when people read you as male, or something else. It’s all up to you! Anyway, what you feel is valid—whether you’re a binary trans femme boy, or a femme nonbinary boy, or a femme genderfluid person, or whatever else—and don’t feel your options in who to be are limited by your asab, or femme-ness, or potential nonbinary-ness or fluidity or anything else.