Hi there! I’m a 21 year old female and recently I’ve been doing some soul searching and I realized that I’m bisexual. I dug a little deeper and I started questioning my gender identity. I sometimes joke with my boyfriend and say, “Sometimes, I feel like a dude.” And I’ve said this for a while now. I’m starting to wonder what I really am.

Basically, there are times when I feel like a guy and I’ve always fit in better with men, even though at the time I was still the girl of the group. Growing up, I mostly had guy friends too. I also despise wearing make-up and doing my hair more than letting it air dry. lol I also don’t really feel comfortable in most dresses. Occasionally, I’ll wear one but I sometimes almost feel fake. Like I’m trying to be a girly girl when i’m not. :/

I was talking to my best friend about it and I said to her that I almost feel like I’m 60% woman and 40% man. If that makes ANY sense… So I mostly identify as a female. I saw the word bigender and I seem to kind of fit that but I’m not sure. 

I’m totally willing to have an open conversation with anyone about this. Thanks.


  1. genderfluidity reblogged this from feelslikeiamfalling and added:
    :-) Thank you for sharing!!
  2. feelslikeiamfalling reblogged this from genderfluidity and added:
    I can identify with you… It’s pretty much the same save some few details (what with you having a lot of guy friends and...
  3. rat2rrj reblogged this from genderfluidity and added:
    Sounds very similar to me.