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the-mav-reviewer asked genderfluidity: 
I always used to identify myself as female. And for the most part, I still do, but then there are those creeping feelings I get that maybe this isn’t right. I started dabbling that maybe I feel like a guy but that doesn’t feel right either. But I like taking aspects from both genders and kind of using them as my own. But I don’t feel right either. I know we don’t have to confide to just one gender, but because of my up bringing its so hard to let go of conventional ideas. What should I do?

It is likely to take a period of adjustment, if this hasn’t already happened, where you get used to the idea of being the way you are and recognizing that it’s not what you thought and not what others have assumed, and that your upbringing did not prepare you for being different. 

The main thing I could suggest is just that you believe me: you are the way you are, and that’s not a bad thing. You’re not alone and there are many others with similar feelings and conditions to yours, and we are here to comfort and console you  all the time. If others don’t understand, refer them to ME and I’ll handle it. :D You’re OK as you are, it just takes some getting used to before it’s easy to accept it, but knowing that you’re not wrong or weird or a freak…that you’re WONDERFUL as you are…that is a good thing and we support you.

Hugs

Anna

SO YOUR CHILD IS GENDERQUEER: a guide for parents

adventuresingender:

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THIS IS TREMENDOUS! Please let’s use this approach whenever we find people  need to be educated about gender diversity. It’s not angry, blaming, or negative; it’s very positive and encouraging for everyone! It’s aimed at parents, but it’s really information that is accessible to everyone. We’ve all had people in our lives that needed to hear all of this. Share this around!!

(Reblogged from adventuresingender)

scientificinqueery:

I definitely fell trying to put my pants on.

For anyone who has any questions, I’m wearing the T-Kingdom Model 801 Binder, size medium (I’m 5’2”, about 117 pounds, and I’m around a 34 C bra size), and the Goodvibes Sailor Soft Pack packer, caramel, 4 inch version (I think).

~scientificinqueery

(Reblogged from scientificinqueery)
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(Reblogged from bluemantle)

genderpivot

iragray:

/ˈjendərˈpivət/ (noun):

a term i coined to describe the intersection of genderfluid and bigender identities in which one of the genders remains stagnant while the second gender fluctuates without a predestined path. 

(Reblogged from iragray)

Hey, it’s okay…

fyeahgenderqueers:

…if you want to bind and wear a dress.

…if you want to stuff and wear a suit.

…if you wear mascara and lipstick and men’s perfume.

…if you get a manicure and take T.

…if you work out, get ripped and then wear a bikini.

…if you like stuff stereotypical of your assigned gender.

…if you have surgery and then wear clothing for your assigned gender.

…if you bind, and then stuff.

…if you stuff, and then bind.

…if you change your name to a gender-neutral one.

…if you only want surgery sometimes.

…if you only want hormones sometimes.

…if you only want hormones.

…if you don’t want to medically transition at all.

…if you’re not even sure HOW you would go about dressing in drag.

…if you’re yourself.

(Reblogged from brinaethegiraffe)