Anonymous asked: My gender is getting less and less fluid. I haven't changed in about four months, and that's only between male and masculine androgynous. I haven't been female since the summer. I'm scared that I'm losing my girl side, which i really really do not want to happen.
I’m sorry to hear about this distressing situation. It’s scary when our conscious and subconscious minds (If I can so describe this disparity) are in conflict, with one side moving away from one gender against our conscious will. I have never heard of anyone being able to control their genderfluidity willfully, though (presentation is a separate matter).
Anybody have any insights, or similar experiences?